As I sit here in my Spokane hotel room, it seems impossible that a mere 4 weeks have passed since I decided to let go of my Beaverton apartment and take to the road for the next 9 months.
I distinctly remember the moment I first thought about it. It was late on a Thursday night, and I had been complaining to my boyfriend (again) about how much of a pain in the ass it was going to be to collect rent from my roommates during my 6 week vacation in Wales.
And then, in the midst of my rant, I had this crazy thought. What if I just – didn’t? What if, instead of trying to figure out how to replace a roommate, renew the lease, and get the rent money from my roommates so that I could pay the rent for all three of us while on vacation in Wales – what if I just didn’t bother?
I laughed about it at the time. Not because I didn’t want to take my business – heck, my whole life – on the road. I laughed because I believed that dream, conceived in July 2012, was still a year away from reality.
But the next morning, I casually mentioned the idea to my mother in an email. And then, suddenly, the idea wasn’t so crazy. I was already planning a 6 week trip to Wales. I had a house-sitting gig lined up for 2 weeks the end of June. By the end of the day, I had the beginnings of a schedule worked out.
And in fact, less than 1 week later, what had been a crazy idea in my head became fact. I told my roommate (the one who had planned on staying) that I wasn’t going to renew the lease at the end of April. And I had that conversation with him 6 days after that initial crazy, late-night what-if.
Now, I don’t want you to think that it all magically worked out for me, although I will admit that it feels that way. There’s a lot that goes in to turning your life upside down, as it turns out. So here’s a bullet list of everything I’ve done for “Project Nomad” in the last 4 weeks:
- Figured out where to store my stuff (I’m sharing my boyfriend’s storage unit)
- Got a frequent flyer account with United Airlines so I could start racking up frequent flyer points
- Got 2 new credit cards that do not charge foreign transaction fees. And one of them is the United card. Hello, frequent flier miles!
- Applied for 2 new checking accounts, ones that do not charge foreign transaction fees. So far, Schwab is highly amazing, and HSBC is all kinds of terrible.
- Set up a permanent street mailing address so that my insurance (brand new as of April 1st) and my business will continue to be domiciled in Oregon.
- Booked my tickets to Europe, and my B & B.
- Accepted a house-sitting opportunity in Dublin for December.
- Printed out paperwork to go member at large with my international chorus organization.
- Figured out check out procedures for the apartment.
The list looks fairly short, but don’t let it fool you – an incredible amount of planning has gone into the last four weeks. Most of it, though, has been on the itinerary end. Here is what my itinerary looks like right now:
Late April – Mid June: Wales
Mid-June & July: Portland
Beginning August: Colorado
Mid-August to Mid-October: Montreal
End of October: Colorado
1st Half of November: Portland
Last Half of November: Boston
December: Dublin
As for what happens after December, it’s anyone’s guess. I have long wanted to move to Europe, so if my visit to Wales goes well, I may get an apartment there. Or, I may decide to come back to Portland. A third option is to continue the life of an on-the-road house-sitter, although I would need longer assignments (2 – 3 months) to make that lifestyle doable.
There are times when I look at this itinerary and it looks amazing. And there are times when I look at it and think, “For a woman who *really* likes routines, that’s a lot of moving around!”
In the end, time will tell whether this sort of lifestyle is what I want to do. I’ve been dreaming about it for the last 2 years, and my main client is totally OK with me working from anywhere. So there’s no time like the present, as they say.
In the next week, my primary goal is to get everything packed by Friday, and then get friends to help me move all my stuff into the storage area over next weekend. It will be a very busy week – I’ve lived in my current apartment for 8 years, so there’s lots of stuff to get rid of! But go it must, and go it shall. Just don’t expect me to sleep too much over the next week. đŸ™‚
I could go on about all the minute details, but I think this just about sums up the main points of the last month. If you want more details, or have questions I didn’t answer here, feel free to leave a comment below and I’ll do my best to answer them. Note, though, that I won’t answer anything that’s too personal or otherwise unfit to print on the internet. đŸ™‚
Until next week,
Felicity
Fey, have fun!* I know you will. Your crazy-like-a-fox (in a totally good way–foxes are cute!) planning and foresight makes you ready for this. Difficult has never swayed you before, and I admire that. Difficult is only encoded in your lexicon as, “something whose ass needs kicking.”
*see the letter that bookends this comment.
Thanks, Erin! I’ve never thought of myself as a fox, but I could grow to like the concept. đŸ™‚
WTG Felicity! You will discover how extraordinary the nomadic lifestyle is, both the good and the challenging.
Have a fabulous time!
Cheers, Alison
Alison Armstrong recently posted…This Nomadic Life – Recovery. And having your ducks in a row.
Thanks Alison!
I’m looking forward to following your travels as I begin my own. đŸ™‚
This is all so exciting! I’m wondering if I should do this in a couple of years…..I like new adventures…. But perhaps I will just plan a trip to coincide with one of your locations and meet up with you to explore. I will miss you here and in chorus. Safe and exciting travels to you! laf
I will miss you ladies, too! But, there’s a lot to be said for house-sitting. Or – since you own your home – you could even swap houses with someone for a while. If that happens, I’m coming to visit you!
‘not so “crazy an idea” — a good time to explore the world and yourself. You seem to have planned well, though I’m sure there will be a few “challenges” along the way…
The nomadic lifestyle isn’t for everyone — it can get lonely “out there”, and getting to know any area takes 3+ months. Perhaps you’ll find an area that you want to return to (or avoid), and the means to stay in that area for more than a few weeks or months — stability and friends become more important when you’ve gone without for awhile…
Meanwhile, I’ll “drop in” for the occasional “harassment” (or encouragement). Perhaps you should put your experiences in book format, in your “copious free time” — a more current version of “Innocents Abroad”, and self-publish an eBook at Amazon, B&N, etc.
No doubt stresses will continue to build as you approach the departure date — you’ve both plans and a “fall-back position” — all will be well…
larry
If I have any exciting experiences, Uncle Larry, I will be sure to document them. Europe isn’t exactly as much of a culture shock as India or China or Brazil, so I’m not sure it would have the Amazon best-seller factor. You never know though, eh?
‘given today’s market, a romance novel rather than travelogue would be in order, especially if you throw in a vampire or werewolf…
Hey Felicity:
This is *all* awesomely cool. But the one thing new I got out of it is that, once you tell your mother something, it becomes real! đŸ™‚
Yep, my mom is pretty magical that way. If you think I’m good at planning, you ain’t seen nothing yet!
Way to go, daughter. Keep us informed! Good luck moving…it is kind of interesting to see what all has accumulated over the years, even if it does not look like a lot at first glance.
I found some really weird stuff in my memorabilia box. I think it’s safe to get rid of my academic awards from high school. đŸ™‚
You’re a true inspiration Felicity. Many people only THINK about doing what you’re doing. You’re walking the talk though. Can’t wait to hear more!!
Thanks, Susan. It’s comforting to know that people are excited about what I’m doing. It makes me feel a bit less terrified!